The Confidence Podcast Archives – Trish Blackwell

Back by popular demand, another listener submitted questions episode! In this episode we talk about: How to advance in your career without sacrificing your close connection to your children? How to not be afraid of making the wrong decision... How to make big decisions in life without feeling overwhelmed, anxious and like you're second-guessing myself?[...]

Do you take things too personally? Or perhaps do you over-personalize things that aren't going well and over-compensate? Are you afraid of feedback because you know that you tend to take constructive criticism way too intensely. This is something we all deal with…haters, critics, and feedback we don't like— and today I'm giving teaching how[...]

You're a doer, and an achiever - you have high standards for yourself and you know that you're capable of so much. And you work hard. Like, really hard. So, when you make mistakes, especially avoidable mistakes, it hits you like. Like, super hard. You know it's okay to be human, but that's for other[...]

Do you feel the pressure of too many expectations and too much to do? There's a tug-of-war between feeling like you're never "enough" in any role and a conflict in demand for your attention. You feel guilty all the time … mom guilt, not doing enough guilt, feeling inconsistent guilt, or maybe guilt about that[...]

Rejection hurts. And the thing is, when we get rejected we also self-isolate and personalize the rejected state. This episode of The Confidence Podcast will help you know what to do to self-heal after the next rejection you experience (because let's be honest, you'll have them coming, we all do!) You can learn how to[...]

Does it bother you when someone doesn't like you? Or maybe you struggle with decision making because you waffle back and forth between what you think you should do and what other people think you should do. Maybe you find yourself worrying about other people's opinions of you, even though you know it "shouldn't" matter,[...]

Feeling misunderstood or not supported by those close to you can feel isolating and hurtful. It can devastate your spirit and throw you into a spiral of resignation and depression. You are not alone, and the good news is that you don't actually need the support of other people in the way you think you[...]

Friendship as an adult can be hard. Everyone is busy, and you find yourself surrounded by co-workers who have nothing in common with you, or neighbors you don’t like. You know you’re great at friendship, and you love having a solid social group, but it feels like everyone you care most about is drifting and[...]

Anxiety used to rule my life. I woke up with it and went to bed with it. I felt like a prisoner to it. If you ever struggle with anxiety, this episode is for you. In the episode I'm going to teach you the two most effective techniques I have used that have enabled me[...]

If you've ever looked at someone else's life and thought to yourself, "must be nice," then this episode is going to fire you up about what is possible for you in your own life. The key isn't just to have a dream, but it's to believe that that dream is actually possible. It's only once[...]

Everyone sells something. We live in a world that operates on sales - selling ideas, selling products, selling personal opinions - and the more confidence you have, the better you will be at selling. In this episode I'm going to share the exact thoughts that will help you sell with confidence. The more confidence you[...]

If you've ever struggled with a deep desire to fit in, and yet at the same time you know that you also want to stand out, this is a podcast episode that you're going to love. As humans we're wired to be in community and to be connected with one another, and yet, we are[...]

If you've ever worried about coming off arrogant instead of confident, this episode is for you. In this week's coaching I'm breaking apart the thought-pattern differences between arrogance and confidence so you can confidently navigate the grey line for yourself. If you are worried about being arrogant, you probably aren't - and you very well[...]

If you want to have a happy and positive life, there's a small, toxic micro habit that you've got to start taking seriously. It seems innocent, and in many ways it's socially acceptable, but it's deteriorating your happiness from the inside out. The thing is, most of us don't intentionally do it, and when we[...]

If you ever feel insecure around other women - or find yourself comparing yourself when you're in groups of other women, this podcast is for you. Maybe you turn down social opportunities, or you just don't get along with female coworkers or you just feel more comfortable around guys than you do girls … this[...]

This episode of The Confidence Podcast will give you a better understanding of ghosting, why it happens and how not to personalize it, and more importantly, how to deal with it without letting it negatively impact your social confidence. ✅ ‌ FREE CLASS! LEARN HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK ‌ Don’t forget to[...]

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You asked, we answered! This episode of The Confidence Podcast is a special listener-submitted podcast. ✅ ‌ FREE CLASS! LEARN HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK ‌ Don’t forget to sign up for our free “How to Stop Caring What People Think” webinar masterclass at https://www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring ‌ ✅‌ GET ACCELERATED RESULTS: Our next-level coaching[...]

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're going to talk about what to say to yourself when you make mistakes, and more importantly what not to say to yourself. In this episode you'll learn why mistakes are a good thing and a necessary thing in your growth journey.  ✅ ‌ FREE CLASS! LEARN HOW[...]

Maybe you find yourself overthinking social interactions or large group gatherings because you just aren't sure how to engage, how to start a conversation naturally, how to get out of one naturally or if anyone truly wants to talk to you, or you're the person waiting for the invite to the girl's night out or[...]

Do you ever feel like you just don't measure up? You know a lot of it is in your head, but you can't help comparing yourself to others and find yourself always coming up short. You just feel like other people are prettier than you, smarter than you, more successful than you, more naturally popular[...]

Do you struggle following through for what you really want to do? You have a great idea, and you totally want to implement it. You make a plan, you get on board, and then you flake. You bail on yourself, you change your goal, you convince yourself that it doesn't matter or that you struggle[...]

If you've ever felt like you didn't matter, or wondered what the point of it all really was, this episode is for you. If you've ever felt discouraged and like no matter what you did, you would never really stand out and never really matter, this episode is for you. If your brain has ever[...]

Can we talk about off days? Like, not necessarily "bad days," but just off days? Do you ever have them? You feel like you're in a funk that you can't shake and you can't quite identify, and you feel sort of disconnected from life. You go through the motions of your to do list for[...]

Why is it that some people are massively successful and others who try just aren't? How can you make sure that your goals aren't just ideas and that you don't end up like most people, feeling like they missed out on life and on their fullest potential but just don't know what they could have[...]

Do you find yourself feeling frozen when making decisions? Maybe you are the type of person who likes to field the opinions of everyone you know before making a decision…or are you the type of person who internalizes the decision and delays it from the pressure to make "the right decision"? If you struggle with[...]

If you've ever worried about not maximizing your fullest potential, this episode is for you. Maybe you've had people tell you that you have so much talent, but you aren't sure if you believe them, or if you do believe them, you don't know how to really use what you've been given - it all[...]

You've heard that affirmations are a good thing to do, and you dabble in them sometimes, but they feel like they fall flat. This episode is for you. The words you speak over yourself matter and affirmations work, but most people are doing affirmations wrong. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're going to[...]

Do you feel anxiety or dread on Sundays, especially Sunday evenings, when the weekend starts winding down? Maybe you feel it like resistance, or like something is looming in on you … you just want to be happy and to be "normal" about not letting work press into your life, but you just aren't sure[...]

I used to be afraid to go all in on things because I was afraid of disappointment. When I learned that disappointment wasn't permanent and didn't have to define me, I shed the shame and learned how to allow it in my life. Once you allow something, you are no longer held back by the[...]

Do you ever have find your brain getting stuck in a self-talk loop of "what ifs?" What if it doesn't work out? What if you don't really lose the weight? What if you don't really have what it takes? When you learn these 3 proven strategies to talk back to your "What If's" so you[...]

If you're someone who likes reassurance, or who needs the affirmation of others, then it's time to work on your skill of self-assuredness. Self-assuredness, like any other facet of confidence, is a skill that anyone can strengthen and improve. When you learn how to practice the skill of self-assuredness - and more importantly, what to[...]

Self-doubt isn't a problem, unless you make it one. . If allowed to run wild, self-doubt can be a powerful force that holds us back from pursuing our goals and living our best lives. But with the right mindset and tools, we can learn to navigate self-doubt and maintain our confidence in the face of[...]

You want to be liked, and at the core, you know people like you, but you still wonder if you fit in and if people really like you. You've accepted that there will be people who don't like you, but you still wish that you could be cooler or feel like you belong more than[...]

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Do you want to next-level your life, and you know some things you can do, but you're putting them off? Maybe it's joining the gym, or perhaps it's taking the first steps to switch your career. If you're an entrepreneur, this might be as simple as trying new ideas with more boldness and confidence, or[...]

Do you have an inner mean voice that no one knows about? You know, that voice that is always beating yourself up, telling you that you could have done better, and putting pressure on you to lose weight, be cooler, do better or make less mistakes? We call that voice your self-talk. The self-talk narrative[...]

The world can be a negative place, and if you have negative people in your life or are fighting off internal negativity yourself, today's episode is for you. You're tired of the negative coworker, or perhaps the cynical family member, or just the negative weight of the world that feels like it's ever pressing in[...]

Ever felt like you don't fit in? Or like you're just different from other people and you're constantly wondering what "they" think of you? Or maybe you have big dreams, and have been teased for it … or you're worried that your success will make other people feel bad. Perhaps you haven't go after what[...]

Are you held back by the fear of others? Do you find yourself caring too much what people think, or watching critical hot messes piles up on social media threads, and as a by-standard feel burdened by the critical nature of the world we live in? Maybe your critics aren't "those other people" out there;[...]

If you notice a difference between the confidence, and wages, of men and women in the workplace, and you want to know what's going on and what to do about it, this episode is for you. The confidence gender gap is a real thing, and today's episode is a conversation with one of the world's[...]

You're fired up. It's a new year. But how do you make sure that you don’t lose the fire? How can you make sure that this year is different than any other year? It's all in the approach. Success is not a fluke, and it's not just for the lucky. It's for those who plan[...]

If you're consistent, you can create any result you want. The truth is, most people give too soon. They stop right before the breakthrough. They tire of the uncomfortable feelings of boredom or disappointment and they become inconsistent in following through. The result? They don't get the result they want, and then they're discouraged. Too[...]

Do you feel like you never have enough time to get everything done, and like you never will? Like the pressures of the world and your to-do list are in conflict with your dreams and passions and the life you want to live. Time management is a huge industry - with apps, calendars, planners, and[...]

In this episode we're going to reawaken the dream inside of your heart and reignite your belief that anything is possible, for those who believe and those who are willing to take bold, relentless action until they achieve what they want.  We'll cover the 5 mistakes most people make when setting goals and designing their life[...]

You know you're made for more, and you have big dreams, but how do you get past the overwhelm of putting yourself "out there"? What will people think? What will happen if you go after that big dream, you write that book, you put yourself up for the promotion, you speak up and start leading[...]

The darkness of the winter season is upon us and if you have ever struggled with winter sadness or holiday anxiety then this episode is for you. I'm going to share 3 simple strategies that I use that have been game-changing, as well as some mental shifts in how you can think about the seasonal[...]

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're going to talk about how to reawaken the confidence inside of you, how to train the confidence muscle (even if its atrophied or you feel like you never had it), and what mistakes that you might be unknowingly making that are chipping away at your confidence instead[...]

The secret to success is to have a bias for action. Those who train in themselves to become massive action takers increase their confidence, their self-esteem, their self-concept and their results. This episode will give you mindset hacks to help you train yourself into being a person who takes massive action with ease … and[...]

You may not be consciously making excuses, but chances are, you're probably holding yourself back with some of these common and sneaky excuses. If you want to stop tip-toing in life and playing smaller than your potential, then it's time to identify and put a stop to the excuses, subconscious or conscious, that are holding[...]

Everything is possible. Everything is learnable. Every problem is solvable. Every effort pays off and adds up. Your dream can happen. Your life can change. BUT you have to start. You have to be willing to do the work, to fail and to keep showing up. This episode will teach you how to get started,[...]

Those with unshakeable confidence have tapped into soul confidence. Soul confidence is different than confidence that is self-focused. It is God-focused, and it is strengthened by deepening one's relationship with God. This episode will help you find deep meaning and fulfilment through the deepening of your faith. It will also help you uncomplicate any challenging[...]

Do you find yourself trapped in the cycle of self-criticism and "should haves"? It's time to break free! In this episode, you'll discover 10 compelling reasons to put an end to self-inflicted judgment and learn how to break the mental habit of beating yourself up. If you want to feel better in life, and not[...]

When you know what you want, like, really know, it's easy to stay consistent. Most people don't achieve their goals, not because they aren't trying, but rather because they don't have a clear idea of what they really, really want in life. Sometimes in order to know what you do want, you have to first[...]

When you like yourself, others will like you more. Increasing your likability factor can open doors of opportunity, expand favor in your life and make you appear more confident to others. But there's a difference between being likable and caring too much what people think. This episode will help you find the courage to be[...]

There's a fine line between fact and fiction in our thoughts. This episode will teach you how to understand the difference between thoughts you should believe and thoughts you should change, if you want to decrease your stress levels and enjoy your life more. You'll discover how to de-dramatize your thinking and determine with thoughts[...]

Whether you're an early riser grappling with dawn's anxieties or a night owl navigating the challenges of evening unease, this episode offers practical strategies to help you find peace and balance throughout your day. Tune in to gain a better understanding of your anxiety patterns and learn techniques to enhance your mental well-being. Anxiety can[...]

The "First Thought" concept is one of the quickest and easiest ways to boost your confidence and to improve your overall happiness and productivity rate. This episode will give you the step-by-step process to training your first thought and to tapping more easily into a more positive brain. This process will help you have more[...]

Never get nervous for an interview or important meeting again. This episode gives you everything you need to know to be confident for those big moments that matter the most. Discover how to harness positive self-talk, visualization, and active listening to transform nerves into empowerment. After this episode, you'll feel confident ahead of time for[...]

Self-forgiveness is the start of freedom. If you're hard on yourself, and tend to beat yourself up for past mistakes or unhealthy habits, this episode is for you. Learning how to nurture a narrative of grace and compassion will open you to a powerful growth mindset and free you from the prison of a fixed[...]

In this episode we explore the balance between confidence, happiness, and the reality of experiencing negativity and sadness. When you give yourself permission to feel the full range of human emotions, your emotional fitness increases and your ability to take action in life when you're feeling down becomes more natural. This episode is for anyone[...]

Self-love is the ability to have unconditional positive regard towards oneself, and no matter your personal background or current level of self-esteem, everyone can strengthen their foundation of self-love. A solid concept of self-love creates the base of confidence, self-trust and the ability to achieve anything you set your mind to. Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com[...]

Break the cycle of overworking and learn to not let work dominate your entire life. This episode will break down why we get caught up in an overworking addiction and self-induced stress. We explore the alluring trap of excessive ambition and the toll it takes on achieving a balanced work/life harmony. Join us as we[...]

If you've ever felt like you don't measure up in your life, this episode is for you. The feeling of not feeling "enough," or like you're not doing enough, or not popular enough, or not ready enough is not as uncommon as you think. The unnecessary pressure we put on ourselves can tarnish and damage[...]

Learn the art of positive self-talk and how to change your inner voice by learning the skill of "Reframing." Discover practical strategies to reframe your mindset, even on days when nothing is going right and the world feels like is against you. Master the skill of establishing mental standards aligned with the life you desire.[...]

The way you think about money affects how much of it you have in your life. Confidence creates ease, and you can create more ease and positive flow in your financial life by increasing your money confidence and your money mindset, no matter your current financial status. This episode will teach you how to have[...]

At any moment, you have the power to reinvent yourself and reinvent the story of your future. In this episode we're diving into the process of how to reinvent yourself, how to know what to drop and how to practice being the person you want to become. Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com | Take Trish's free[...]

When you believe you matter, your core baseline of confidence increases. Knowing that you matter give you purpose on cloudy days and fire on sunny days. Everyone has days or seasons of self-doubt and overwhelm, but if you have a solid understanding that you matter in a magnificent way, then your confidence in how you[...]

In this episode, we're diving into the often-dreaded topic of doing what you don't feel like doing. We all have tasks on our to-do list that we'd rather avoid, but procrastination only makes things worse. So how do we push through and get things done? We'll explore practical strategies for overcoming resistance and building momentum,[...]

Life can feel and be massively unfair. But you don't have to let unfairness be a disadvantage. You can create your own unfair advantage so that you no longer feel behind or feel like you're starting from a disadvantaged place. Learn exactly how to reframe how you think about your life so that you can[...]

The more you can get done, the more you will get ahead, and getting "ahead" will increase how confident you feel about a task or about your life in general. There are some simple time abundance hacks and strategies that will revolutionize how you approach time management and your pace of life. From time-blocking and prioritization[...]

In this episode, we're discussing the important topic of self-kindness, specifically for those who tend to be self-critical. It's all too easy to fall into the trap of negative self-talk and self-blame, but learning to treat ourselves with kindness and compassion is key to building a healthy self-image and improving our mental well-being. We'll explore[...]

Self-doubt isn't a problem, unless you make it one. . If allowed to run wild, self-doubt can be a powerful force that holds us back from pursuing our goals and living our best lives. But with the right mindset and tools, we can learn to navigate self-doubt and maintain our confidence in the face of[...]

It's time to master the transformative power of self-talk and sharing strategies for shifting your self-talk to change your life. The way we talk to ourselves can have a profound impact on our mindset, emotions, and behavior. Negative self-talk can lead to feelings of anxiety, self-doubt, and even depression, while positive self-talk can boost our[...]

In this episode, we explore the concept of "confidence immersion" and the power of "faking it until you make it" as a way to increase both our perceived and actual confidence levels. We discuss the science behind this approach and share personal anecdotes and expert insights on how to adopt a confident mindset and behavior,[...]

In this episode, we tackle the topic of "compare and despair" and the negative impact that comparing ourselves to others can have on our mental health and well-being. We delve into the reasons why we engage in this behavior and provide practical strategies for breaking the cycle and cultivating a more positive and self-compassionate mindset.[...]

Get ready to boost your professional success with this episode where we dive into the crucial topic of work confidence. Discover how this elusive quality can make or break your career advancement and explore the many factors that contribute to our confidence levels in the workplace, from past experiences to our mindset and skills. With[...]

Limiting language and thought errors can keep you from the live you were meant to live. In this episode, we explore the ways in which our use of language can inadvertently limit our thinking and hold us back from reaching our full potential. From using absolute language to engaging in black-and-white thinking, we discuss the[...]

Inconsistency creates self-distrust and discouragement. Discouragement destroys hope. Knowing what you want to do, but not doing it, creates a sense of hopelessness. When you feel this, it feels like there's no point in trying - and it's easy to get overwhelmed with the bigger picture. And then, ultimately, your own thoughts, words and attitudes[...]

Too many people put off their goals and their dream lives with the seemingly innocuous thought  of "I'm not quite ready to start yet." Not Ready Syndrome is a sneaky way that you will stay stuck, even though you feel like you're "working" on your goal. Get out of the stagnation station of feeling "not ready"[...]

Confidence is easier to train within yourself than you might think. This episode explores the 5 simple core principles, or pillars that create, strengthen and scale one's confidence. By mastering each simple principle, you will feel and experience a massive shift in your confidence mastery. As you solidify your confidence foundation, doors in life will[...]

Constantly trying to prove oneself can lead to feelings of inadequacy and burnout. It's important to recognize and appreciate one's abilities and accomplishments, rather than always seeking validation from others. Focusing on self-improvement and growth can be a healthier approach than striving for external validation. Remember that you are already enough and worthy, and that[...]

You can be happier and feel more successful today, right away, right now. This podcast episode will give you an identity boost - and some power thoughts - to help you step more fully into a confident, happy, successful mindset where you feel good based on your thoughts, not on your circumstances. This is a[...]

When you change the voice in your head, you change the course of your life. Your thoughts create your life. This episode will help you know how to know what thoughts you are thinking, how to eliminate the ones that aren't serving you, and how to think powerful thoughts on purpose to create a life[...]

It's critical to learn the skill of knowing how to stop caring what people think, especially in the modern, constantly connected world that we live in. Everyone experiences fear and anxiety over being judged by others, but there are ways to overcome it. By following the 10 principles discussed in this episode and practically applying[...]

Are you feeling stuck, weighed-down by self-doubt, or lack of control in your life? Do recurring negative thoughts seem to have a firm grasp on the way you think and feel about yourself? If this sounds familiar, it’s time to shift these damaging cycles and adopt new habits that lead you towards greater trust in[...]

Do you ever find yourself having unhealthy thoughts or feelings about food and your body image? Do you feel like you are constantly making decisions that aren't in your best interests when it comes to food and exercise? If so, then this is the perfect podcast episode for you! In this episode, we cover how[...]

It is not uncommon for relationships to come with some anxiety; it is part of the process of opening up and building trust between two people. However, if the anxiety starts to become overwhelming, or gets you stuck in a cycle of worrying and mistrusting your partner's intentions, then it's time to take steps to[...]

When life feels like it's happening to you, and everything that could go wrong is going wrong, it can feel hard to stay positive. You want to be strong, but the negativity feels overwhelming and the bad news just keeps coming. In this podcast episode you'll learn how to talk back to the victim mindset,[...]

Are you an ambitious, driven high achiever? Do you strive for the most challenging goals and take on the heaviest burdens to achieve success? If so, chances are that you’re familiar with burnout. As hardworking people sometimes we go too far – overloading ourselves with tasks until our performance deteriorates or even collapses altogether. But[...]

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're doing some live coaching on how to believe in the highest vision you have for yourself - and then how to stretch beyond that even just a little bit further. If you want to do big things with your life - this episode is for you! You'll learn how[...]

You have greatness inside of you, but are you sharing it fully with the world? Are you experiencing a great life or just a good one? This episode dives into helping you know if you're playing small or wasting any of your talent … and if you are, what to do about it. Learn how[...]

If you want to know how to reach your fullest potential this year, this episode is for you. In this live coaching session, you'll learn some core questions to ask yourself to help you really tap into and uncover your fullest potential. Once you know what the capacity of your potential is, you can set[...]

Are you constantly pushing yourself to reach higher and accomplish more, only to feel disappointed when the results don't match up to your expectations? Do you find that no matter how hard you work, it's never enough? If so, then it’s time for a reality check—because while there is great power in challenging ourselves, many[...]

Wanting to make everyone like you could be standing in the way of reaching your fullest potential. Being accepted and respected by others can create an empowering sense of validation - but at what cost? It’s time to recognize that trying to make everyone like you can become counterproductive when not managed properly; it takes[...]

Do you often find yourself putting undue pressure on yourself to achieve more, accomplish goals faster, and be perfect? If so, it’s time to start being nicer to yourself. It’s difficult but essential if we want to truly live up to the highest potential of who we are capable of becoming. In this podcast I[...]

For years, scientists have been studying the benefits of practicing delayed gratification. The findings have consistently shown that those who delay gratification tend to be more successful both professionally and personally. So what is this magical skill, and how can you start practicing it today? Learn how to master it and some power affirmations to[...]

In our fast paced society, it's all too easy to feel like we're constantly falling behind. Whether it's striving for the perfect body or working towards that corner office, it seems like we set unattainable goals for ourselves and then berate ourselves when we don't reach them. But what if I told you that you[...]

If you aren't happy with your life, this is your invitation to change it. I'm inviting you to change your life in one year. It starts with getting $1000 off a year of transformational coaching. You won't recognize yourself or your life one year from now. If you aren't happy with your life, this is your[...]

Negative self-talk can send us spiraling about ourselves, about our lives, and about our futures. Once the spiral starts it can feel hard to stop, but doesn't have to continue to keep you spinning in helplessness. This episode teaches strategies on how to effectively get out of the fog of mind drama, how to neutralize[...]

Public speaking and speaking your mind no longer need to panic you or make you feel anxious and unsure of yourself. This podcast episode gives you practical and easy to implement tips to improve your self-confidence for the next time you need to speak in public, or the next time you're trying to speak your[...]

The brain is the most powerful thing we have in the world, and yet most of us are blocking ourselves from accessing its fullest capacity because we aren't managing it well. The result? You don't achieve as much as you want and your life feels good, but not great. The key to a breakthrough in[...]

Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from negativity. A negative mind will never give you a positive life. The less you respond to negativity, the more peaceful your life becomes. This episode will teach you how to distance yourself from negativity, how to create a positive mind (and a positive life) and how to[...]

Increased productivity and increased discipline means that you make more progress on what matters, and have more free time as you do. Learn how to increase your self-discipline and personal productivity with these time-management hacks and mindset shifts; you'll see a change in how you approach your life management right away. Get the full show[...]

Your happiness comes from your thoughts. In this episode you'll learn how to create the type of thoughts and type of thinking that creates happiness as a result, no matter what is going on in your life that's challenging, negative or hard. Happiness is a choice, and this episode will teach you how to be[...]

If you've ever struggled with loneliness or with feeling different, then this podcast episode is for you. You'll learn how to be confident in your differences, how to encourage yourself when feeling lonely or rejected, and how to create hope and purpose in your life when you feel down or "blah." Get the full show[...]

Our habits help us live our days well; and when we can learn how to live one day well, we are capable of living a week well. Knowing how to live a good week gives you the power to know how to live a good life … and it all starts with your habits. The[...]

If you struggle with anxiety, this episode is a must-listen. Anxiety can feel like an unpredictable and powerful monster in your life, especially if you ever find yourself waking up feeling attacked by it before you even get out of bed. This episode will give you practical and easily applicable steps to victory over your[...]

Procrastination and putting things off creates a reactive, delayed life. No matter how deep your default patterns of procrastination or avoidance are, you can learn a new way to think and approach the things in your life that matter most to you. This episode will teach you the core tenants of how to stop procrastinating[...]

Trusting yourself to make good decisions, and trusting your ability to show up big in your life in your own personal follow-through changes everything. If you've ever struggled with indecision, overthinking or lack of self-trust, this episode is for you.  This episode will teach you how to practice self-trust, how to not belabor or second-guess[...]

The more confidence you have, the more potential for money - the ability to earn money, the ability to manage money, and the ability to have money - that you will have. Whatever your money story in your past has been, there's no better time than now to decide how you want to make money[...]

The inner self-critical voice has the power to keep you from your fullest potential and from your ability to experience pure happiness in your journey. When you learn how to pursue progression and not perfection, the self-critical voice starts to lose it's power, but you still need to learn how to get rid of the[...]

You want to love your life, but you have things in your life right now that are less than ideal, and don't have a prospect of changing soon. Maybe you don't love your job, or maybe where you live, or maybe you find yourself in a season of challenge. This episode will teach you how[...]

Life can feel massively unfair, and like everything is working against you. If you've found yourself ever feeling like nothing is working, or like things are happening for everyone but you, then this episode is for you. Learn how to reframe unfairness and stay confident when you feel discouraged or are losing faith. You'll also[...]

  Bonus Episode: Stress, Overthinking, and Anxiety Reduction Stress, overthinking and anxiety can weigh you down. There’s a simple 5-step proven process that I want to share with you that will alleviate and reduce these heavy emotions in your life, no matter how chaotic your schedule feels right now. Sign up for the Stress Less[...]

Everyone wants to be happy, but not everyone knows how to be happy, and how accessible happiness is to anyone, no matter your circumstances. People are sadder and sicker than ever before, but it doesn't have to be that way for you. Learn some easy, free and simple methods that you can apply to your[...]

Rejection can derail even the most confident person if you mismanage what you make rejection mean about you. Learn how to reframe rejection and the awkwardness that can be felt when you don't feel like you fit in. This podcast episode will teach you why rection can be a good thing for massive growth and[...]

Journaling is the single most effective tool for creating change in your life. People who journal achieve more and report overall better mental wellness and well-being. When it comes to your mindset, managing your thoughts and becoming a more confident, courageous person, journaling is the one habit to prioritize every day that will make the[...]

Money scarcity and fear of success can keep you from your fullest potential. Learn how to think about money with confidence, how to manage it with confidence, and how to tap into more ability to create it with this coaching episode. You'll love the 9 money mindset affirmations and see massive changes when you put[...]

Equipping your children with the tools of confident thinking will give them the ability to create a life of impact, and a life they love. The good news is that you can teach confidence while you are also learning to be more confident yourself. This podcast will teach you 15 specific ways to instill, encourage[...]

Confident communication opens doors of opportunity and creates healthy relationships that thrive. Most people are too rushed or too timid to tap fully into the wealth that is available to them through confident communication. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants to improve their interpersonal communication, their professional communication, or their relational communication. Get[...]

Self-criticism can absolutely destroy the light inside of you, and your ability to live life to the fullest, and with full joy. But for many of us, the self-critical voice is our internal voice, and the voice that we've always had, so it feels like it will never go away. But it can. You can[...]

Having purpose and feeling enough both start with the belief that you matter. This episode will coach you on how to believe this to be true in your life, and how to start showing up with bold belief and even bolder follow-through so that you tap into your purpose and make the difference in this[...]

Positivity is a super-power; positive thoughts create a positive life. People who tap into the skill of managing their mind, and disallowing negativity, no matter the circumstances, achieve massively more in their lives than anyone else. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/499 Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com | Take Trish's free masterclass to Stop Caring What[...]

Anxiety doesn't have the authority to dominate your life unless you give it permission to. This podcast episode will teach you how to talk back to your anxiety, how to minimize its effects on you, what to do when you feel overwhelmed by anxiety, and how to turn your anxiety issues into your greatest strength[...]

You don't have to feel confident to be confident. Learn 4 easy ways to be confident for those moments when it matters the most (and when you feel it the least), in this coaching podcast. Being confident is always an option when you learn how to trust the process of showing up with confidence and[...]

The pursuit of your potential comes with many obstacles. Join in on a conversation between confidence experts Heather Monahan and Trish Blackwell on how to know if your goals are realistic and how to go after them, no matter how many challenges get in your way along the journey. This is a must-listen for anyone[...]

The most successful people are the ones who are open to failure, not those who demand and expect perfection. The act of dropping unrealistic or perfectionistic pressure that is often associated with being driven is easier said than done. This podcast episode will teach you how to actually embrace B- work, be open to failure[...]

You're doing better than you think you are. But often our brains convince us that we're "behind," not doing enough or that we're not making progress fast enough. This episode explores exactly how to believe that you are indeed right where you need to be and that everything is working. Listen in to learn how[...]

If you've ever downplayed yourself minimized an achievement, or perhaps feel like you're playing small with the real potential that you know God has placed inside of you, then this podcast episode is for you. This coaching podcast explores how to break this self-sabotaging and self-critical habit that's not only making you feel "not enough,"[...]

When you learn how to accept compliments, you appear confident, humble and open. And yet, most people resist compliments and downplay themselves. It's time to reprioritize the art of accepting compliments, which in turn, will empower you to be more generous in the compliments you give - to others and to yourself. This podcast will[...]

We gave you the opportunity to ask the confidence questions that most weigh on your heart, and you, our faithful listeners, weighed in! These are the most common questions that you want to know about confidence! Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/491 Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com | Take Trish's free masterclass to Stop Caring[...]

We gave you the opportunity to ask the confidence questions that most weigh on your heart, and you, our faithful listeners, weighed in! These are the most common questions that you want to know about confidence! Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/490 Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com | Take Trish's free masterclass to Stop Caring[...]

Sports confidence is the key to supreme athletic performance, but most athletes don't know how to tap into their most confident athletic self. Explore the 10 confidence mistakes that keep athletes from peak performance, creating self-doubt and unhelpful self-pressure. Then, learn the 12 confidence hacks that the top athletes in the world employ to train[...]

Feeling sorry for yourself, or over-personalizing how hard things are for you is a sure-fire way to sabotage your confidence. Not only that, self-pity will make things feel 10x harder than they need to be, and will mentally and emotionally exhaust you. This episode will teach you to know if you're indulging in self-pity, and[...]

Overwhelm is an indulgent emotion that will keep you stuck. You can cut through overwhelm by learning how to talk back to it and move through it with confidence and strategy. This coaching episode will teach you exactly how to reduce overwhelm, what to do to avoid an overwhelm overload, and 5 specific things you[...]

Being hard on yourself might be the very thing keeping you stuck. We think that being hard on ourselves means that we are driven, or have high standards, but being too tough on yourself is an ineffective approach to any goal you have in life. Being hard on yourself increases stress, decreases results and is[...]

Everyone wants to be happy, but most people aren't. You can learn how to tap into a life of happiness, even if your life is a mess, once you learn the art of happiness. In this coaching podcast, learn why happiness sometimes eludes you and how you can create more happiness in your life, without[...]

If you struggle with comparison, or with the assumption that no one else is having a hard time like you are, then this episode is for you. In this episode we're coaching on how to stop being jealous of others, how to stop comparing yourself, and how to see that your life is going better[...]

Self-Validation, or the art of not needing other people to tell you "good job," is a skill that the most confident people learn how to master. Even if you consider yourself a words of affirmation person, you can learn how to self-affirm and self-validate. Self-validation keeps you from the traps of people pleasing, of striving[...]

The way to stop giving up on yourself is through knowing how to follow through on your belief in yourself and your belief in a goal. Confidence Coaches Trish Blackwell and Christina LeCuyer jam out on a powerful and strategic episode to teach you how to have belief, faith and follow-through that really produces results[...]

If you've ever felt "not enough," this episode is for you. However the voice of inadequacy speaks to you, this coaching will give you practical ways to talk back to the feeling of "not enough" and "feeling behind" so that you can talk yourself to a place of secure self-worth. When we know that we[...]

Dating gets better results when you date with confidence, curiosity and courage. Marriage is better when the relationship is approached with confidence, curiosity and connection. Get coaching on how to add the spark of confidence to the relationships in your life, either the relationships you already have, or the ones you hope to have. A[...]

Nothing is more tragic than giving up on yourself. And often, this is done in subtle ways in life that we don't even realize are happening - like, with settling. This episode will help you figure out if you are settling or putting up with less than you deserve, the reasons why we settle and[...]

Motivational saying tell us to think bigger and to believe in ourselves, but they don't tell us how. This podcast episode is going to teach you how to think bigger and how to believe bolder in a few practical ways that you can implement right away, starting today. The bigger you think, and the bolder[...]

Bonus Podcast Instantly Increase Your Confidence The way to instantly increase your confidence is to learn to say “yes” to yourself. You can give yourself approval and permission to live a life worth telling a story about if you first believe that you’re worth saying “yes” to. This episode will help you feel empowered to[...]

Having the courage to be disliked gives you personal power. It gives you the freedom to be yourself. It elevates your emotional maturity and it frees you from the cycle of overthinking from worrying what other people think. If you want to learn how to stop caring what people think, stop people pleasing, or stop[...]

You were probably told to believe in yourself, and to believe in your dreams. But, where you ever taught how to actually believe? What the steps are? How to build belief? Approach your goals entirely differently, with more confidence and bold belief than ever before by learning how to believe in your big goal with[...]

When you dread things, those things become harder. Dread is just an emotion, resulting from a mismanaged thought that leads to procrastination and avoidance. This podcast episode will teach you how to identify what you are avoiding, when dread shows up, and how to start making those tasks and important things in your life easier[...]

It's the most wonderful time of the year, if you don't count of the stress, all the expectations, all the people-pleasing and all the things to do. This year doesn't have to exhaust you like previous years have when you use the simple practice of affirmations and thought re-framing. This podcast episode will provide a[...]

It takes confidence to know exactly what you want, and then courage to believe in yourself enough to create the result you want. This episode will teach you how to do both - how to know exactly what you want and how to really get it in your life. We'll deconstruct the reasons why being[...]

Increase your confidence, increase your income. There's a direct correlation between confidence and professional potential, and this episode will help you learn how to scale both in your life. Whether you're an entrepreneur or work in a corporate job, wanting to grow within your company, these 10 strategies will help you increase your professional confidence,[...]

Comparison is a default thought pattern that is killing your confidence and happiness, however, you can learn how to neutralize its negative impact on your life. This podcast episode gives 21 comparison detox strategies, along with 12 happiness hygiene habits to help you be victorious in your mental management of comparison in your life. Comparison[...]

The pain from past rejection keeps many of us from our fullest potential in life, both personally and professionally, but it doesn't have to when you learn how to reframe rejection. You deserve better than to expect to get hurt, to expect things not to work out or to expect disappointment. This podcast coaching session[...]

Body confidence is a thought process that anyone can learn to strengthen, and these confidence strategies for your body image will help. Learn 10 strategic things you can do to improve your body image and 5 life-giving, confidence-evoking affirmations to help you learn to love the body you are in right now. Get the full[...]

Just because you have always thought one way in the past doesn't mean you have to always think that way in the future. This episode of coaching explores what you believe about yourself, how to drop limiting or negative beliefs, and how to pick helpful, life-giving and positive beliefs to start believing. You can learn[...]

Knowing that you have a purpose, and knowing yours, will make your life come alive. It gives meaning to the mundane and puts fire in the places you want to wake up in your heart. Purpose is the drive of confidence that we all crave, but most people feel lost in this area. This episode[...]

  Bonus Podcast Episode [Limited Time Access]   No Negativity November: How to Detox Negativity       Negativity steals from you. 👎🏻 It limits your happiness. 😩 It reduces your confidence.🙇🏼‍♀️ It squashes your dreams.😳 It tarnishes your relationships.🤦🏼‍♀️ It restricts your motivation.😬 It makes you want to stop trying. 🙅🏼‍♀️ But it doesn’t[...]

You become who you think you are, so the thoughts you think about yourself and about your life are critically important. But what if you feel out of control in your thoughts? What if you struggle with anxiety, overwhelm and the thoughts you think more than most people? This episode will empower you on the[...]

Loneliness is pervasively felt, yet when lonely, we convince ourselves that we are the only ones who feel so alone. If you've ever felt alone, misunderstood, disconnected or like you don't fit in socially, this podcast coaching is for you. If you don't feel like you belong, yet find yourself craving connection and community with[...]

Affirmations can transform the way you think about yourself and your life. They are one of the most powerful thought-habits we can have to tap into next-level excellence, and even though most people know this, most people don't do affirmations effectively or consistently. Learn how to write your own affirmations and how to create an[...]

Conflict and communication problems can cause tremendous insecurity and disconnect in even the best of relationships. Learn how to do conflict with confidence, how to fight fair, and communicate with courage from relationship expert Marie Anderson.  Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/463 Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com | Take Trish's free masterclass to Stop Caring What[...]

We live in a chaotic world filled with conflicting opinions everywhere you turn. In a world that is more connected than ever, we are more divided, more lonely, more isolated and more conflicted internally on standing strong in our own opinions, even when they are unpopular or simply opposed by those closest to us. This[...]

Wanting people to like us is a part of being human, but sometimes a misplaced desire, or ineffective ability to connect with others creates inner insecurity. Get coached on the 3 basics on how to make people like you more, starting with first learning how to like yourself. When you master your focus on these[...]

Life is filled with uncertainty and tons of unknowns, so learning how to stay confident in unpredictability is key to living with unshakeable confidence. Get a sneak peek into a chapter of my newest book, Straighten Your Crown, and how I have learned to embrace the unpredictability of life with an adventurous, open and light[...]

Assertive confidence will open doors in life you didn't know were accessible to you. But how do you learn how to be the type of assertive that will be well received instead of the type of assertive that comes off pushy, demanding or bossy? You'll find out exactly how to do just that in this[...]

A better rested you is a better you. We all love sleep, but what if sleep is hard for you, or life circumstances are keeping you up at night, tossing and turning with anxiety and overthinking?  Your relationship with your thoughts at night is within your control, and this is good news for anyone who[...]

Not feeling good "enough" and always needing the affirmation, approval or acceptance of others can severely limit your ability to tap into your fullest potential and greatest amount of joy in life. This coaching explores how to give yourself approval, believe you're enough and trust your own decisions, even if you've struggled in the past[...]

Overwhelm, whether it's in your personal life or your professional life, can derail your confidence, drown you in self-doubt and leave you feeling flailing for hope and purpose. In this coaching, you'll learn what to do when there's no end in sight. You'll learn how to stay filled with faith, how to have peace in[...]

You "know better" to care so much what other people think about you, but you're still feeling stuck in the people-pleasing, perfectionistic, desire-to-be-liked thought loop? This podcast episode is for you! Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/455 Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com | Take Trish's free masterclass to Stop Caring What People Think at www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring[...]

Believing that change is possible in your life, or that you can actually create a life that you love takes emotional and mental courage. Too often we short sell ourselves, our potential and our impact in this world because we aren't daring to think big enough. This podcast episode will help you understand the deeper[...]

Not doing what you say you want to do is one of the most frustrating patterns that is easy to fall into and will perpetuate low self-esteem and stagnancy. Be kind to yourself though! This isn't an issue of lacking discipline, laziness or not caring - it's a belief issue, and in this episode of[...]

You're not alone in feeling insecure about how you engage and interact with others physically. But there's no reason to stay stuck in this avoidance of or minimization of physical intimacy. No matter your background with others or with yourself, you can learn how to safely and comfortably connect with yourself and others with confidence[...]

Black and white thinking, or all or nothing thinking, is a thought strategy often used by highly driven people that actually stunts progress, deteriorates happiness and limits potential. If you have ever described yourself as an "all or nothing" person or as a "black and white" thinker, this podcast coaching is for you. It will[...]

Bonus Podcast  How to Create Real Change In Your Life The second half of 2021 can be better than your first half. This podcast episode will help guarantee that you actually believe in yourself and achieve whatever you dare to dream is possible for yourself in the next 6 months. Join us July 12-16th, 2021[...]

Beating yourself up, or indulging in the emotion of feeling awful about yourself, when you're not where you want to be isn't effective. It's not a helpful thought pattern, and yet, we find ourselves in places of despair. Despair drives us to desperation, depression and disillusionment. It morphs our ability to see where we are,[...]

Overthinking, or the inability to stop thinking so much, can make you mentally and emotionally exhausted, not to mention, it sabotages your self-confidence in the process. The act of overthinking, replaying conversations in your head, or second-guessing yourself, is a subconscious expression of doubt and lack of self-trust in your own actions, interactions and decision[...]

Everyone experiences social awkwardness; it's what you do when you're experiencing it that determines whether or not it will mess with your confidence and with how you come off to others. This podcast episode will coach you to a place of confidence for the next time you find yourself in a socially awkward situation, wishing[...]

How you think about your work directly impacts the confidence with which you show up for it. The more career confidence you have, the more opportunities you will create. The reality is that most of us feel stuck, dissatisfied or overwhelmed with work and end up not showing up as our best selves. Your work[...]

The need to find yourself, to figure yourself out, to learn to love yourself and how to figure out who you are is part of the journey of being a human committed to self-improvement and positive personal development. This video will teach you how to find yourself again when you feel lost, how to find[...]

If you have ever worried about backsliding in life, things not working out or that the good things in your life are too good to be true, this podcast episode is for you. In it you'll learn the how to talk back to your "what if's" and how to stay positive about being able to[...]

Healing your confidence after abuse or trauma is something not often talked about, but widely needed. If you have experienced abuse or trauma, and your confidence can be rebuilt. Reestablishing a new self-concept, healthy boundaries and new thoughts about yourself and about those you can or cannot trust in your life will take time, but[...]

Positive aging and pro-age confidence is an important element of self-confidence that everyone should work on, no matter what age they are. Aging is an inevitable part of the journey of life, but it doesn't have to be negative, as so much of culture and society tries to convince us that it is. This podcast[...]

The practice of journaling, when done correctly, can change your life. Most people journal haphazardly or sporadically, and therefore don't get the mental breakthroughs and life-change that is possible. If you've ever struggled with knowing what to journal, how to do it, where to start or just feel burnt out on inspiration, this podcast episode[...]

Turning a negative thought into a positive is a simple process, when repeated and practiced often, can become natural and mentally accessible for anyone who puts in the effort. Just because you think a thought doesn't mean you have to continue to think it. This podcast episode will teach you how to successfully and confidently[...]

Overthinking is worse for you than you think it is because it creates problems that aren't even there and keeps you stuck in place when you could be moving forward. If you have ever struggled with overthinking, whether it's ruminating on your past or worrying about your future, this podcast episode is for you and[...]

The belief that you're not good enough, not doing enough, or not ready enough is an internal weight that can keep you chained, held back and constantly questioning yourself. You don't have to stay in this belief pattern, even if it's been the narrative of your whole life. Learn the mindset of feeling "good enough"[...]

The fear of disappointment can keep you playing it safe and staying small on the sidelines of life. You may think you're protecting yourself or being realistic, but really all you are doing is guaranteeing that your life as a whole will be less than you were created for, and that's disappointing. Disappointment is part[...]

Friendships matter, but in a pandemic and post-pandemic world, we are more disconnected than ever. If you've ever wondered how many friends you should have, how to have better friendships or how to create life-long friends with confidence, then this coaching podcast is for you. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/437 Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com[...]

Learning how not to care too much about what people think is possible, when you learn how to master your mindset and train your thoughts. This podcast episode will teach you how to detach from people's opinions of you, how to be free from all of the "what if's" that keep us looped into playing[...]

Do you want to change a habit that is keeping you stuck? This podcast episode is for you. In it, you'll learn why you have had a hard time breaking the habit and how to approach habit change with more confidence, and success. It all starts with getting honest about the habits you need to[...]

It's quite possible that you're making your life, and your confidence growth, harder on yourself than it needs to be. Did you know that sleep can help your confidence? Not just a little boost either, it can make it skyrocket. This podcast episode with confidence expert Trish Blackwell will help you see the power of[...]

Challenge Invite: Miracle Night Routine Challenge The post Bonus Episode! Challenge Invite: Nighttime Routine Challenge Week appeared first on Trish Blackwell.

Real confidence is built from the inside out, not the outside in.  When your confidence comes only from affirmation from others instead of affirmation from within yourself, your self-esteem will be shaky. Confidence built from the inside out is steady, and you can strengthen your deep confidence by learning how to be your own validation voice.[...]

How you talk to yourself determines so much about how you feel about yourself and how you feel about your life. In this podcast you'll learn how talk back to yourself when negative, how to take ownership of your thoughts and also how to talk back confidently to negative people in your life. Get the[...]

Most people do not see themselves for who they really are. Instead, they see through a lens of unworthiness, flawed thinking, dysmorphia and perfectionistic ideation. I struggled with seeing myself too, and to help you start to see yourself for how amazing you are. In the show I'll share with you what I did to[...]

If you have a good life but want to make it a great life, this episode is for you. Most people settle for good enough, for getting through the week, for bland, beige lives that are mostly unfulfilling, not just for them, but for the world around them. You were created for more. God created[...]

You know what to do, so why aren't you doing it? If you've ever been stuck in this cycle of being motivated to change, but not being able to get started or sustain new habits, you are not alone. This is a common struggle and there are a 3 things that are probably keeping you[...]

Learning how to let go of feeling like you're falling behind in life, can change how quickly you accelerate and grow into where you want to go. You are not stuck and you are not behind. This podcast coaching session will help you reframe how you think about where you are in life, in your[...]

Hardship and suffering are unavoidable in life, but how do you walk through them with faith, confidence and unwavering hope? Special guest and extraordinarily inspiring human being, Tony Nunez shares powerful insight through his experience as a young man with ALS. Husband, father of three young girls and youth pastor, Tony 's passion for people[...]

You can learn how to never second guess yourself again when you learn how to manage the whirlwind of thoughts that swirl through your mind on a daily basis. In this episode of The Confidence podcast, we're talking about Mind Drama, Second-Guessing Yourself and Self-Coaching yourself out of the second-guessing spiral. You can get the[...]

Do you find it hard to show up for yourself? Do you tired of never following through? Why is it that some people can follow through on what they say they want and some people can't? This podcast episode is going to dive into helping you understand why you never follow through and how to[...]

Everyone wants to know how to come alive and how to be happy, but so few people figure out how to do either. Your vibrancy, your happiness and your success are all contingent on how you think. Learn 10 ways to bring more life to your life and the foundational basis on how to think[...]

Words create. This special episode will fill your year with words that will help you create a beautiful and confident year ahead. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/423 Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com | Take Trish's free masterclass to Stop Caring What People Think at www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring The post #423: Words to Create a Beautiful Year (Bonus[...]

  What Will “They” Say? PODCAST #423 What will “they” say is often part of the internal self-talk that can keep you sidelined from your dreams. This podcast episode explores who “they” are and how to get their voices to quiet down and even go to “mute” so that you can get on with your[...]

Imposter Syndrome is an expression of insecurity in which we are so preoccupied by what people think of us that we feel like frauds doing what we are doing. Imposter syndrome consumes you with self-doubt, overthinking and feelings of being unqualified. Often people who struggle with this put a tremendous amount of pressure on themselves[...]

Trying to please others puts you on a hamster wheel of inadequacy, powerlessness and in insecurity. People pleasing makes us co-dependent and cautious with how we appear to others. It makes us addicts to caring what people think and keeps us stuck in a life of stagnant averageness - average happiness, average success, average relationships.[...]

You don't have to think the way you have always thought. In fact, our brains are wired to change and think differently when the right neurological strategies are applied. This podcast episode will help you intentionally think about how to change the way you think. No longer will you feel stuck in old thought patterns[...]

The courage to be disliked is a mark of confidence. When you learn to stop caring what people think, you will unleash your fullest potential. Thankfully, this year has given us an unique perspective on how to stop caring what people think. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/419 Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com | Take Trish's[...]

If you don't know how to figure out what you want, then you'll find yourself drifting through life instead of designing your dream life. This podcast episode will help you figure out what you want, know how to take that idea and progress it into a dream, and then how to take that dream and[...]

Confidence opens opportunities in life. It helps potential flourish, and it enables activation of one's dreams. Being able to give confidence to others isn't found in just building people up, it happens by teaching the basics of confidence. Go to www.trishblackwell.com/417 for the full show notes.  Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com | Take Trish's free masterclass to Stop[...]

Do you always feel like you have so much to do? Are you living in a state of exhaustion, overwhelm and feeling like you can never quite catch up? Y'all, this is the state of the world right now - and it's killing our spirits and squashing our confidence and courage without us realizing what's[...]

Anxiety, or overwhelm, can make your spirit feel crushed, and your life feel stuck. I know, I've lived that life. In this podcast episode we are going to pull back the curtain on what living with anxiety looks like and talk about some effective ways to help alleviate and manage the anxiety on a daily[...]

There's a powerful phrase that confident people use that will open doors of opportunity, unleash your courage, and up-level your resilience. The phrase sounds flippant and simple, but that's exactly why it's so powerful. In fact, this phrase will help you stay present - not in the past and not in the future - for[...]

Forgiving self-destructive behavior keeps many people stuck in confusion and conflict. If you've spent a huge portion of your life stuck in self-sabotage, self-destructive or unhealthy patterns of thought or behavior, then this episode is for you. In it we're going to explore how to forgive yourself for being so harmful, for making poor decisions[...]

To learn how to actually like yourself, you have to first figure out who you are and spend time with yourself. This podcast episode peers into how to go deep in self-identity and how to trust who God created you to be. When you know that the Maker made you the way you are and[...]

You have a voice, it's time to use it. When we don't use our voices and don't speak up for ourselves or for what is right, the world suffers, as do we. It's time to start speaking with confidence, even if you have never done so before. This podcast episode will hold your hand and[...]

If you struggle with comparison, self-criticism, or have a hard time being nice to yourself, then this episode is for you and you will learn how to stop beating yourself up unnecessarily. Undue pressure and unrealistic expectations can sabotage your confidence and happiness, and you'll get 4 easy-to-apply strategies that you can start implementing right[...]

Jealousy rots the bones, but it doesn't have to rot yours anymore. This podcast episode dives into how to stop being jealous of others so that you can get on with your own life and thrive where God has planted and placed you. Too often we don't call ourselves out on jealousy, envy or comparison,[...]

Appearing more confident than you are is a decision, and there are a few small tricks you can do to hack this habit for yourself. Confidence is not a destination, but rather a journey - so it's natural for your confidence to ebb and flow. Thankfully, you don't have to always feel confident to be[...]

Putting pressure on yourself doesn't work. In fact, it's a surefire way to wreck your confidence, spiral in overthinking and lose your joy to comparison and jealousy. Putting pressure on yourself is a false prophet that we have convinced ourselves will lead us to the success crave. But maybe our definition of success is skewed? Maybe[...]

Getting everyone to like you is as simple of a task as catching the wind. Here are 10 simple things you can do today to be okay with people not liking you. These will help you stay confident as you navigate the social norm that we all experience: not being liked. This podcast episode will help[...]

2020 is a year where your mindset - and your perspective - will make or break you; this podcast episode will help you have a winning perspective about what might be the most challenging year of all of our lives. Here are 20 good things about 2020 that you can apply to your life too.[...]

Going all-in on your goals feels harder than it needs to be - all you need to do is learn how to have confidence as you take risks and lean into the "what if's" of the unknown ahead. If you've ever found yourself self-sabotaging, stuck in excuses, or holding back over something, then this episode is[...]

Being confident in relationships is a manifestation of small, daily habits that everyone can do. Confidence will increase the quality of communication and connection you have with others. This podcast episode will dive into how to be strong, contributing, and confident as a partner in your relationships, how to date with confidence and how to[...]

Health anxiety or medical angst is a real thing, and it's becoming even more anxiety-evoking in the age of a pandemic.  There are ways, simple ways, to stay calm and confident when you might otherwise spiral into health anxiety and medical worst-case scenarios. This podcast episode will give you tactical tools on how to have confidence[...]

Confidence is something you can grow and strengthen, so becoming someone who oozes and overflows confidence is something that is available to you. When you have confidence that oozes over, it will invite people in, open doors in your life, and most importantly, pave your path with peace and power as you live out being[...]

Learning to have confidence is a lifelong endeavor. Every year that you commit to the training of your thoughts and being bold is a year that you will learn things about the confidence that you never knew were there. Every new level of success you reach in life will demand a new level of confidence[...]

The scarcity mindset destroys our ability to thrive and keeps us locked into fears of limitations and fear. If you ever grew up hearing "money doesn't grow on trees," then this episode was created especially for you. We're flipping that. concept upside down and on its head to help you reframe your money mindset. It's[...]

Having confidence in your intelligence has nothing to do with how "smart' you are and everything to do with how you think about yourself and your brain. When you embrace a mindset of being a lifelong learner, reestablish your relationship with failure and stop worrying about what people think, you can learn to trust your[...]

Knowing how to not feel discouraged when you're tired, and how to keep going when the going is tough, long, hard or boring, is one of the key elements of staying confident in the face of challenge. If your year has been filled with curveballs, or if you're feeling intimidated and overwhelmed with just how[...]

Being happy where you are is an internal decision that can change the course of your life and life-satisfaction. When you learn how to be happy where you're at, you're able to release the self-doubting thoughts that creep in suggesting to you that you're behind or not enough. This podcast episode will help you learn how[...]

Thinking about food all the time is a challenging hurdle for most people who want to lose weight or who are fighting to create a healthy relationship and their body image. When you can learn to stop thinking about food all the time you are able to step into a place of freedom and balance[...]

Being your own worst critic is a recipe for low self-esteem, heightened anxiety and a life of frustration. You can learn how to stand up to your inner bully and how to start talking back to the bully in an effective way. This podcast episode will teach you how to do just that. Get the full[...]

Asking for what you want is a confidence skill that can transform every element of your life. The more you practice this 4-step process, you more proficient you will be at asking. Most people don't know how to ask for what they want because they don't know what they want and because they don't feel[...]

BEING CONFIDENT EVEN THOUGH YOU AREN’T YET WHERE YOU WANT TO BE Podcast #392 If you value progress more than perfection, then it’s possible to feel confident and capable, even if you don’t yet feel like you “deserve” to. Confidence has no finish line or destination. It is a muscle that we work and strengthen[...]

When you learn how to have more joy and more peace in your life, you will naturally begin to overflow with confidence. Here are 37 simple and practical ways to help you have more joy and peace in your life, starting today. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/391 Start coaching at www.collegeofconfidence.com | Take Trish's free masterclass[...]

You can learn to not be bothered or swayed by other people's opinions when you learn how to develop a thick skin. Developing a thick skin comes when you know who you are, how to be yourself, and from lots of practice of being in uncomfortable situations and learning how to have the mindset to focus[...]

It is possible to have confidence even when the future is unknown.Finding peace and confidence when life is filled with unknowns, especially when life feels tumultuous, is the cornerstone of being able to have joy in all circumstances. In this podcast episode, we're talking about how to have confidence and peace when the unknowns of life[...]

Can you really do anything you set your mind to? And if you can, how do you "set your mind' and really do anything? This podcast will help you break down the behind-the-scenes of the mindset of achievers so that you can also learn how to set your mind and belief that you can really[...]

You don't have to cower from having difficult conversations anymore. This podcast episode will coach you on exactly how to be confident when having intimidating or difficult conversations. No more avoiding, no more buffering, no more sweeping things under the carpet - it's time to confidently connect better with the humans in your life. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/387[...]

To become someone who exudes confidence, you become someone who also becomes a magnet to success and happiness. This episode breaks down exactly how to train your confidence and thoughts about yourself in order to exponentially grow your confidence to that "exude" level that is contagious. Your contagious confidence has the power to encourage the world;[...]

How can you stay motivated when things feel like they're falling apart around you? If you're overwhelmed by the circumstances of your life, or learning how to process ambiguous grief or the uncertainty of the unknown, then this episode is for you. You'll learn how to stay motivated when you are sad or scared and how to make[...]

Getting the right people to like you is a result of learning how to stop caring what people think. This podcast episode will teach you how to let go of caring what people think about you. You'll also learn how to find and create the right friend group for yourself. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/384 Start[...]

Stress triggers responses in our personalities that aren't always nice. Noone likes themselves when they snap from stress - either through anger, sadness or bickering with their loved ones. In a time of crisis, chaos, isolation, and lockdowns, it will be helpful to know how to stay nice when stressed - not just for others,[...]

Fuel your faith in the face of fear by paying attention to your psychological immunity and wellness. Here are 10 things you can do to build your psychological immunity and also the single most important phrase that can help you have a powerful perspective shift that will keep you positive, not panicked, during a pandemic[...]

As we socially distance ourselves and go into local quarantines, preparing for the unknown, I want to provide simple thoughts and shifts of perspective to help you be and stay positive, not panicked during the COVID-19 coronavirus pandemic. We can choose to walk this season in faith, or in fear, and this podcast episode will help[...]

There exists a strong correlation between high achievers and binge eating - and it's often pushed off and hidden with shame. This podcast explores how to stop binge eating and how binging is not a product of lack of self-discipline, but actually a reflection of putting too much pressure on yourself. Get ready to feel encouraged about[...]

The secret to knowing how to get out of your own head, and how to stop your thoughts from spiraling negatively in your mind is more accessible than you might think. Even if you've had a lifetime pattern of negative thoughts, self-doubt, comparison, overthinking or mental self-sabotage, you can be free and you can learn how[...]

Approval addiction, or affirmation addiction, is rampant and a debilitating pattern to allow dominate in your heart. You don't have to always be stuck in this addictive, often negative and powerless place. You can learn to be free from the need to earn approval, get permission or be affirmed by others to feel like you're "enough."[...]